Random Ramblings on the Gypsy Life

by Ekua on January 7, 2010 in general travel,movies with movement

One day during my winter break, I thought I’d tune in to the Travel Channel. What I saw disturbed me. Most Unique McDonalds followed by Extreme Pig Outs… ?!?  But then came a commercial break with an announcement that a new season of Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations is beginning on January 11th. A ray of hope and sunshine amidst the Travel Channel’s increasingly dismal programming. The commercial asked whether we’d see Good Tony or Bad Tony this season. I really don’t care, I’m just looking forward to Travel Channel content that is actually related to travel.

I also had the pleasure of watching Up in the Air during the holidays. Destiny was a theme that stood out to me in the film. Whether or not people are predetermined to be restless is something I’ve thought about in my last few years of traveling. It seems like travel has become something you’re supposed to get out of your system early. Go backpacking or volunteer abroad after college, then settle down. But there are those of us who just can’t stop. And some of the most amazing travelers I’ve met have been well beyond their twenties with young hearts and incredible stories acquired from decades on the go.

At a holiday party, I talked to a guy who told me he didn’t like to leave the United States because it’s too much of a hassle to travel internationally. He wasn’t referring to costs, flight delays, or the de-shoeing and de-liquiding airport security process. He was talking about how terrible it is to actually be in another country. Ludicrous. Poor guy, I looked at him like he was insane and spent 15 to 20 futile minutes trying to explain why travel is in fact wonderful. But then I thought about my own life and how others might perceive it to be lacking in stability and some of the comforts people are supposed to require more and more as they get older.

I’m definitely not extremely detached like George Clooney’s character is in Up in the Air, but I’ve realized that as far as the United States goes, my level of need for movement does not put me in the majority. I guess I can’t really fault people for not wanting to deal with certain types of adventure. When I look back at some of the mishaps and unexpected misadventures I experienced in South America, it seems kind of crazy that I wittingly put myself in a position to get into difficult unwitting situations. But often, the most curse word inducing travel moments turn out to be the most gratifying afterward.

It’s hard to describe the elation that comes from new sights and smells and sounds and conquering the challenges of travel. And how what you experience on the road permeates your life at home and allows you to find adventure and discovery around every corner. In my San Francisco life, I typically encounter people who get this or at least have a desire to know about the various cultures of the world and people beyond their immediate surroundings. It makes it easy to forget that many people want a life that’s full of what’s familiar. I can’t say that it’s right or wrong, but I don’t understand it. And some take a need for the expected along with them when they leave home, wanting a change of scenery but not a change in familiarity. Hence all-inclusive mega resorts and “travel” shows such as Most Unique McDonald’s.

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Mary R January 7, 2010 at 5:49 pm

I’ve often thought about this same topic, as there are so many people in my world that have little interest in travel, or worse, judgment about my undying love for it. The way I see it, it’s a hobby like any other. For some people, it’s cars, for others comic books, etc… I also think that travelers are cut from a different cloth from non-travelers.

I think if someone has never ventured beyond a boring guided tour, they have no idea how exhilarating it can be.


Ekua January 7, 2010 at 10:22 pm

I agree about needing to go beyond a basic tourist experience to get a sense of what makes travel great. I remember the guy at the holiday party saying something about having negative experiences while traveling with his parents as a kid. He said they were really into planning and filling every moment with something structured. But I think once you’ve gotten to the point where you can travel on your own, that’s not a good excuse anymore 😉


Fly Girl January 8, 2010 at 7:24 am

I truly believe that travelers have certain types of personalities. An adventurous spirit and longing to explore are traits that many people grow out of but they remain prominent for travelers. Comfort and familiarity are really important to most American travelers and I think it has a lot to do with our privileged society. We don’t buy into the system so it’s not a concern for us but many people have real fears about not being able to cope with strange surroundings, unfamiliar food and situations they can’t control. It is sad.


Ekua January 8, 2010 at 4:10 pm

You’re right… many travel lovers I know definitely have unique personalities. They are also creative types- writers (of course), musicians, chefs, etc. I guess it makes sense. Travel is one of the best ways to access creativity!


Stacie January 8, 2010 at 6:58 pm

I am so ready for Tony to be back..I was just thinking about him today!


Ekua January 9, 2010 at 12:29 pm

Yeah, I’m definitely ready for another season… can’t wait for Monday!


neha January 12, 2010 at 12:40 am

Most Unique McDonalds? Really? Ha, time to send in a few pitches, maybe?


Ekua January 12, 2010 at 5:32 pm

This sounds like a very good idea Neha 🙂


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