backpacking

Enter Asia

by Ekua on March 5, 2013 · 1 comment in backpacking,Thailand

The feeling you get when you’re about to set foot on a new continent for the first time is one of the greatest rushes you can experience. As you exit the airport and head into the unknown, there is a palpable sense that the world is about to open up to you in previously unimaginable ways.

But first, the flight.

At my gate at SFO, I could already feel the difference. I noticed others noticing me, with curious looks that said, “Who is this young black woman by herself on her way to Asia?” I was thinking the same thing. Fear doesn’t necessarily go away as you travel more, it’s just that wanderlust triumphs in the end.

I made some last minute phone calls at the airport and as soon as I hung up, a group of people from the Philippines asked me where I was going and what I was doing when I got to my destination. That was just the beginning of the curiosity. I have never gotten asked so many questions about my travel plans as I did before and during that flight.

Sharing my row on the plane was an elderly couple from Hong Kong. They didn’t speak English, but they nodded and smiled at me profusely. I quickly bonded with two American women sitting behind me as we settled in and waited for the flight to finish boarding.

They asked me where I was going and I explained that I was traveling through Southeast Asia. Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, and Laos. They told me that they were off to an ashram in India. Wondering where they’d gotten the inspiration from, I asked them if they’d read Eat, Pray, Love. Indeed, they had. They said that unlike Elizabeth Gilbert’s ashram experience, theirs would be more of a relaxed spiritual vacation.

When we’d gotten past quick formalities and discussing our trips, one of them said to me, “We saw you and thought, ‘That girl knows what she’s doing.’” I was glad that my feigned confidence had convinced at least two people even though internally, my nerves were rattling.

Traveling into the unknown means giving up control. It’s the scariest and best part of travel.

At meal time, the food was delivered in delightful little green and white dishes, some with cute cutout designs. I marveled at them because I’m a sucker for that kind of thing. Apparently, my seat mates liked them as well. When they finished eating, they rounded up all of their pretty dishes and shoved them into their carry-on bags. I was surprised that they’d take them so audaciously without even trying to hide it. They continued to nod and smile at me profusely as I watched them load their bags with the dishes.

Many hours later, as we approached Hong Kong, my excitement rose a few notches. It was dark and foggy so I couldn’t see anything, but somewhere below was Asia.

In the last 10 minutes of our final descent, the woman sharing the row with the American women behind me unbuckled her seat belt, stood on her seat, and began to open the overhead compartment to get her carry-on. A petite flight attendant quickly ran up, tackled her, put her back in her seat, and buckled her seat belt while screaming, “What are you doing?! The plane is landing!”

Before we’d even touched ground, it was clear that my trip would be a memorable one. It really is all about the journey.

With the entertaining plane happenings behind us, I continued to hang out with with my two new friends at the airport. We blindly led each other through the airport, dragging our jetlagged selves around in the wee hours of Hong Kong’s morning. After immigration, we parted ways. They were going to attempt to see Hong Kong during their 6 hour layover and I was going to try to rest during my 4 hour wait. I wished them good luck and said goodbye.

On the way from Hong Kong to Bangkok, I tried my first new food of the trip. It was a chunk of white fruit with lots of black seeds. It tasted a little sweet, but not like much else. I later figured out that it was dragon fruit. With it’s pink spiky skin and white and black speckled interior, it won in the cool looks department but it always tasted bland.

After a few hours, I arrived in Bangkok. A bored immigration officer stamped me in. I got a little panicky at the baggage claim when backpack after backpack came tumbling out and none of them were mine. Finally at the very end, my new backpack appeared. I knew I’d overpacked, but from a distance, I could clearly see how it was bulging. It was my first time traveling with a backpack and I was about to learn the hard way just how much I didn’t need. Already, I could barely move around the airport with it on.

I asked various airport workers where to go to catch the transportation I had pre-arranged through my hotel. Someone directed me to an area where a man asked to see my receipt and then motioned for me to sit down without really confirming anything. I had no idea if I was in the right spot, but sometimes you have to hope for the best and just wait. And wait. Eventually, a driver came to pick me up.

“Whoa!” he exclaimed as he lifted my bag. I gave him a sheepish look in return. We drove into the the smog and traffic of Bangkok and it was every bit as steamy and chaotic as all the guidebooks described. It felt like a modern metropolis built on top of a busy village. I was in awe that I was there.

Where do first time backpackers go when they arrive in Bangkok for the first time? Khao San Road. I wasn’t staying there, but it wasn’t far from my hotel. After settling in and a little exploring, I ended up on Khao San. I made may through crowds of backpackers who all seemed to be wearing dropped-crotch pants, past the hair braiding stands and stalls selling all kinds of bootleg items, and found a restaurant that had been recommended to me by a Bangkok local.

So there I was in this restaurant, sitting outside in rainbow-striped chair on an balmy Bangkok evening, enjoying a green coconut curry with a side of rice that was inexplicably shaped like a bear. Bliss. There were so many simple joys to be had that evening, and so many adventures yet to come.

Green Coconut Curry in Thailand

Teddy bear rice in Bangkok

Author’s note: I am not currently in Southeast Asia and I’m not planning on traveling in the region any time soon. I visited Southeast Asia in 2008 and recorded my stories from that trip on another site before I started blogging independently. I’m rewriting and sharing my favorite stories here.

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While hosteling in Berlin, I quickly realized that even if you sit out the Saturday night partying, the party will eventually make its way to you. That was especially true in the nightlife heavy neighborhood of Friedrichshain I stayed in at the beginning of my trip.

In my hostel dorm room, there was a lively Minnesotan who occupied the bunk above me. When he arrived, he’d shared his story of forgetting his passport on a plane, subsequently being thrown into jail in Spain, and getting deported to Ireland where he applied for a temporary passport and waited to rejoin his travel partners in the next country on their itinerary. This experience led him to get a large and poorly done tattoo on his side that said, “Live Free Or Die.” I could tell he was the kind of person that had a knack for hurtling himself into ridiculous situations.

That night, I saw him enjoying more than enough drinks at the hostel bar. Later, I was shocked to see that he’d made it back to the room intact with all of his belongings. He even had his phone with him. Everyone in the room knew this because as he slept deeply, his phone alarm kept going off in the wee hours of the morning and he didn’t hear it. Finally, one of my Aussie roommates took matters into her own hands. She climbed up, found his phone and turned it off for him.

The sun rose early that Sunday morning and the most brilliant sunshine I’d experienced in Berlin thus far made its way through gaps in the curtains. In addition to the Midwesterner’s alarm, beyond the window I’d been hearing curious sounds. There’d be several minutes of techno music and cheering, then it would stop for a bit, then it would start again. This went on all morning.

After checking out of the hostel and making my way to a public transit station, I discovered the source of what I’d been hearing. There were about a dozen people with a stereo system on cart, partying in the station. There was also a whole police force trying to get them to turn off their music and leave. They’d turn off the music for a little bit, then run away from the cops and start the music again. Eventually the police gave up and left. The group cheered and finally, they could continue their party uninterrupted.

With the help of those timid cops, I made it to the right public transit station and with the help of other backpackers, I took the right train to the Berlin Central Station. As much as I’ve traveled solo, foreign train stations still often revert me back to a nervous rookie traveler. I blame this on growing up in car-centric American suburbs. Once I arrived at the Berlin Central Station, I could not figure out what the signs meant, nor could I understand the information on my ticket. I’m not sure how, but I made it to my train just in time. Never mind that I’d entered on the far end and had to walk through several cars before I reached my car, I was on the train and on my way.

To my surprise, the seating process was thoroughly chaotic. Some people like me had paid a couple extra Euros to reserve a seat. Others bought a ticket or booked a trip with a Eurail pass without being assigned a specific seat. When I finally made it to the correct car, the seating mayhem had caused a traffic jam.

When I got to my seat, it was being occupied by a hippie-hipster from Scandinavia. He got out of my seat with no problem, but he and his body odor-heavy trio of friends had many arguments before finding seats that weren’t taken. Things finally began to settle down as the seatless found seats and suitcases and backpacks were jammed into every available corner of the train car. It quieted down further as the hungover denizens put in their earbuds and fell asleep.

And southward we went out of the city and into fields of sunflowers. You have no idea how badly I want to hop off the train and run through them. I drifted in and out of sleep through southeastern Germany — the quaint countryside, Dresden, beautiful waterways, and forested hillsides. Eventually, I opened my eyes to see more rustic looking homes and signs in new language. We’d crossed the border into the Czech Republic.

Prague was a “Why not?” addition to my itinerary. To be honest, the cultures of Central and Eastern Europe don’t entice me in the same way that cultures of desert and tropical locations do. But I had a decent amount of time to spend in Berlin, and Prague seemed like a good option for a side trip.

After crossing the border, I found myself more excited than I’d expected to be. I found myself intrigued by signs written in a completely unrecognizable language and by the fact that I was entering a place I didn’t know much about. I hopped off the train feeling very ready to explore.

I visited the ATM to take out some Czech crowns, the local currency. Outside the station, the taxi drivers immediately got a whiff of fresh tourist and presented me with some laughable rip off offers. When I told them I planned on taking public transport, they shook their heads and very convincingly said that was an outrageous idea as the walk to the trolley I was taking was just too long.

For a split second, I almost believed them, but then I regained my wits and followed the detailed directions that were emailed to me by the hostel I’d booked. It turned out to be a short walk across a park to the street car stop. The trolleys were very clearly marked and when I got on the one I was waiting for, locals gave me friendly smiles as lugged my backpack on board. It was a quick ride to my stop and from there, it was just a couple blocks to the hostel. So simple.

I rang the buzzer and entered the Art Hole Hostel which is housed in an old building. The crafty and cozy interior was a welcome change from the sober and spacious “Industrial Palace” I’d stayed at in Berlin. The Slovakian receptionist was incredibly friendly and in short period of time I had many suggestions on where to eat, what to do, and where to go for the best views of the city.

The front desk and some of the hostel dorms were located on the first floor of the building, and my dorm room was on the third floor. As we walked up the stairs, the receptionist explained that the second floor was occupied by the Embassy of Congo, which I thought was an entertaining addition to the quirkiness of the space.

I settled in and went to dinner at Lokal, one of the recommended spots for Czech food. Aside from the smoking inside, the restaurant’s modern and creative atmosphere combined with the emphasis on slow food and local ingredients made me feel like I could’ve been in San Francisco.

While the setting was great, food in this part of the world isn’t exactly the most flavorful. For me, the meal was a bit of a wah-wah. But sometimes in this city, what you’re washing the food down with is more of a focal point than the food. And in Prague, a mug of fresh Czech beer can almost make up for the cuisine.

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Hostel Kokopelli, a clean, colorful, and welcoming hostel in Lima where I kicked off my first big solo trip.

When I travel on my own, where I choose to stay can make a huge difference in my overall experience in a location. In my second post for my solo travel for beginners series, I suggested that hostels were excellent place to begin if you want to meet people while you’re traveling solo. I know that some people who are squeamish about hosteling will immediately start backing away at that suggestion.

But I think that everyone is more capable living differently or more simply than they are used to, especially when in the scheme of things, it’s such a brief period of time. With just a little bit of research, in many locations you can find a variety of hostels that appeal to a variety of travelers.

When I was planning my first big solo travel trip, I browsed some of the hostel websites and would often arbitrarily reserve rooms at hostels that had good ratings. While this might guarantee a decent bed to sleep in, I’ve found that if you’re traveling solo, it’s often better to look a little deeper into what a hostel is all about. Here are some of the things I consider before I book a hostel:

» Safety and Location

Sometimes I’ll see a hostel review that says something like, “This hostel is located in a dark, decrepit alley and it’s really hard to find… but it’s a good hostel!” Um, no thanks. Safety and location are first and foremost. If it’s a large city, I typically opt for places that are central to a neighborhood and in smaller cities, I prefer to stay in the center of town.  I also like to stay locations that have easy access to public transportation.

Another thing I look for is whether or not the hostel has lockers and if past visitors have given the impression that they felt that it was a secure environment. You can find shady people in any hostel or hotel, but some places do a better job of looking out for the safety and well being of their guests by doing things like providing lockers for everyone and by letting guests have access to reception 24 hours a day.

Casa Angel, my hostel of choice in Oaxaca. This toilet used to be in one of their bathrooms. When it stopped working, one of the hostel staff members brought it up to the roof and converted it into a flower pot.

» Size and Atmosphere

On my first big solo trip, I figured that large hostels with a party atmosphere were the best for meeting people. While I certainly did meet plenty of people at hostels like that, I’ve found over and over again that I make better connections with better people when I stay at smaller, cozier hostels. There is often a greater variety of people in the crowd at smaller places and people tend to congregate in the same areas so faces become familiar.

I also keep an eye out for hostels that put time and effort into making the hostel inviting by keeping it clean and giving it some kind of personality. Homey and decorative common areas filled with books, ideas on what to do in the area, and friendly faces can make you quickly feel at ease and they draw people out of their rooms to socialize.

» Hostel Events and Free Breakfast

Hostel events and outings are a good way to settle into the environment when you arrive in a new location. I always  prefer to stay in hostels that keep their guests in mind by organizing gatherings, nights out on the town, or trips to local events. I’ve found that if I first get to a new place and I’m not really feeling it, taking on these kind of opportunities always ends up enhancing my experience.

I’ve regularly found that the breakfast table is the best place to meet fellow hostelers. Hostels that offer free breakfast often do it in a small window of time and people traveling on a budget usually take advantage of this, even though it usually takes place earlier than they like to wake up. A number of my great travel friendships have begun this way, with a conversation struck up over coffee and toast.

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