local discoveries

“Get ready to travel in your own country,” my friend says cheerfully as she opens the gate for me. “You can blog about this!”

Indeed, I step into a new world as I enter the yard. A collector’s world. There are several cars, some functioning, others clearly not. An old Mercedes has its hood propped up and the rusty engine inside makes me think that the hood has been open for a while. There are appliances and sheet metal and all sorts of unrecognizable stuff scattered around the large yard in a semi-organized fashion. Beyond the junk is a mini farm.

Inside the house, there’s a lot of clutter, but I am relieved to see that it’s not completely jampacked. There are quite a few chotskies, a wood-burning oven in the center of the living room, mismatched dining room furniture, and some requisite Bob Marley posters among other artwork on the walls. It’s the ultimate Central California Coast hippie homestead and there are no dull corners in here.

I am a little disoriented in this wacky house in the country, but I’m thrown right into the mix. I meet the eccentric landlord who built the house himself. He grew up in East Germany and Croatia. He is the kind of person who eschews most formalities and gets right into discussing all kinds of topics: city life versus country life, school lunches, his childhood in Croatia. He must have noticed me looking around the house with amused curiosity and he tells me that a lot of houses in Croatia are like this, full of sentimental knick-knacks and clutter.

My friend and her boyfriend make arepas, delicious little South American corn cakes which I imagine I’ll be eating a lot this summer on my travels. We go out to one of the patios in the back to have dinner as twilight dwindles. Another one of the of the roommates is barbecuing chicken by the light of a headlamp and he offers some to those of us who eat meat. Later as we are getting ready to head out, the landlord insists on giving us various kinds of chocolates. It’s a strange and overloaded house, but it’s also one of the most welcoming and generous spaces I’ve been in.

I ask my friend’s boyfriend how he found it, assuming this was not the kind of place you would see listed online. “Craigslist,” he replies, and I wonder what that listing would have looked like.

After dinner, we head back up Highway 1 to Santa Cruz for a hip hop show. I’ve never lived in Santa Cruz, but I’ve been going to shows and hanging out with friends there on and off for almost a decade, so it’s awash with a warm homey feeling every time I return. The crowd at the show is everything you would expect a Santa Cruz concert to be regardless of the music genre: skater and surfer types, university students, neo-hippies, and old school hippies who probably experienced the Summer of Love. We came to the show to dance, so that’s what we do until the music stops.

As we head back to countryside hippie homestead, my friend excitedly tells me that they have a bag of carrots and other vegetables to make a delicious breakfast with tomorrow. This amuses me as a bag of carrots is not something I usually associate with a tasty Sunday breakfast.

We get up in the late morning for coffee and a breakfast of carrots, broccoli and sweet potatoes cooked with garlic and topped with cheese and dash of hot sauce. It is surprisingly tasty. I’m not a huge meat eater, but I am not a vegetarian, so I often find that I am impressed with what people can do with vegetables after years of not eating meat.

When it’s time to go, I say my goodbyes to the household and take one last walk through the yard of clutter. I head away from the hippie house and the road that winds through hills becomes a farmland road that haphazardly curves through a flat expanse of crops and crosses over train tracks. Bright red strawberries that look ready to pick dot some of the fields. There are no other cars joining me on this stretch of road and there are just a few houses and clumps of RVs among the farms.

I stop for gas in Pajaro, a small town with a population of a little over 3,000 people who are 94% Latino. Inside the station, most customers are greeted immediately with Spanish and familiarity. Pajaro sounds like ranchera and cumbia and Spanish, and for my brief stop there, I feel like I am traveling in Mexico again.

I leave Pajaro and head north, reflecting on the past day which had unexpectedly been a charming exercise in cross-cultural exploration just a little under two hours south of home. As I merge onto Highway 1, I think to myself, “I should blog about this.”

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“We do not want merely to see beauty, though, God knows, even that is bounty enough.  We want something else which can hardly be put into words–to be united with the beauty we see, to pass into it, to receive it into ourselves, to bathe in it, to become part of it.”
– C.S. Lewis.

A month ago, I took a weekend trip down the coast to Santa Cruz to visit a friend and escape from the city life for a couple days. On Saturday morning, I found myself on my own in Carmel-by-the-Sea with a few hours to spare. I walked down to the beach and walked along the shore to one end of it. On my way back, I stopped to just stand still and look at the ocean.

I watched the water come forward and rise and circle towards itself and recede. There is something miraculous in the curvature of the waves. And there is a release of tension that can come with the assurance of the cycle. To really be present at the ocean or in the nature of your choice is a kind of therapy.

As I stood there reveling in the scenery, I remembered how I used to do the same thing as a kid in warmer climates. Except my feet would’ve been in the water. And as the water repeatedly washed over them, my feet would slowly be buried in the sand until I was grounded in the earth up to my calves. I’d eventually pull my feet out and start again.

A woman walked by me and brought me out of my memories. “Did you see them?” she asked me with a huge grin.

“See what?”

“The dolphins… there they go again!”

I missed them. But it was just moments before they resurfaced, their fins momentarily poking through the top of the sea in unison. They were so close to the shore. I watched them, mesmerized, until I couldn’t see them any longer.

Dolphins never interested me as a kid. My thoughts of them somehow were limited Marine-this or Sea-that where sea animals do tricks for you for the payment of fish. There was a day camp I would go to where we would visit one of those places once a summer. It was a field trip I dreaded. I can’t really say why I felt that way back then, but I hated marine parks. It wasn’t until I saw dolphins in the wild that I started to really love the creatures.

A little over a week ago, I was on a boat in the San Francisco Bay to celebrate the marriage of two friends. We started near the Bay Bridge, passed huge military ships that were docked for Fleet Week, went past Alcatraz, and underneath the Golden Gate Bridge. But as we returned to the center of the bay, before it could become entirely a tour of man made feats, we spotted dolphins.

At first, I thought the guy who was trying to point them out had visited the open bar one too many times. But then I saw a school of fins appear in the distance, headed in the direction of the shore of the Presidio.

Dolphins in the wild aren’t guaranteed to jump out of the water and do tricks. They can be elusive. You may only get to watch them for a minute. But to see nothing more than the graceful backs of dolphins emerge in unison for a few moments can be immensely special.

On that evening, they were a beautiful sight during the winding down of a lovely day. And a nice reminder that the wild can be closer than we think.

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Though the pain that comes from losing a loved one is infinite, the immensity of it does dim with time. But special events and holidays can re-magnify the loss and make you recall simpler, happier days when all of the dining table chairs were full.

My mom read somewhere that when a family member dies, it is better to begin new holiday traditions instead of dwelling on old ones. 2008 was the year we began recreating our holidays. That year, we went to Hawaii, and the following year, we spent a few days in Santa Barbara. This time, we visited Santa Cruz. Our trips have been getting closer and colder, but the bittersweet new tradition of glorious sunsets, makeshift Christmas trees, and the sea has continued…

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